My secret crush

I have finally met someone, after 15 years of off and on dating and no real relationships. So far, I dont feel crowded....this is a major issue with me. He has a career, something he wanted to do and did it. (I love a determined spirit). We have many things in common, I am such a free will spirit, a complete sports nut. I hate it when a man instantly thinks a woman knows nothing about sports.