Dinner date

I went to the cheesecake factory, I had the best time. This man is really something different which is so comforting to me. I think I could almost erase all the numbers in my cell.

Swept off my feet

Last night I met someone that I really like and have a connection like I have not ever really known. I talked to him for hours, I really felt like I was talking to an old friend. I wasn't really concerned with money and what he could or couldn't do for me, I just enjoyed his company.

Men that can't handle their funds-I think I am a snob.

I was wondering why a particular dude had not called, his phone is off. This is not the first time. I'm talking in the last 2 months his cell phone has been cut off at least what twice? Somehow I have a real problem with that. He should really be much more cognizant or responsible. In addition to the near eviction. My sympathetic side wanted to help, my realistic side wanted to curse him out for even getting that far gone. I have had my share of problems in the last few months, but somehow I don't think mine are as bad. Something to ponder...why do I feel better than someone else when they are having the same problems? Am I a snob?
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Hook up by a friend and the happy hour party....

Well, the latest. He is a hook up from a friend. Yesterday was the first time we, or should I say<>

Speed ahead back to where I am now. The man I am seeing was introduced to me through my coworker. Nice guy, but not neccessarily "type". But I am wondering what exactally is my type? I like his presence and being around him while we are at home, but we are not the same as far as when we go out. I love to be out and party and have a good time with friends. He is more reserved and quiet. Yesterday was a happy hour party with co-workers, I had invited him to come along, but he was ready to go, almost as soon as we got there. I'm not sure if it was not knowing anyone or drinking. He said it was the drinking at 3 in the afternoon. Too much for him. That makes me think, is it really wrong to drink that early? If you continue to live and are productive in society, who cares??

My body, my health

Jillian, I want her body, the fact that she honestly was overweight and lost it and is older remains my inspiration.

I just thought about this, I have not really talked about or really but much effort into the taking care of myself in a while. One thing I know is I cannot break totally free from the 160's. As of right now I am 167 pounds. I think my dream goal is about 145 pounds. How hard is that really??? I dont want to look at the bright side of once being heavier and not gained all that back. I want this last 20 pounds gone. I know it's my intake and I dont put enough emphysis on working out. I plan for every Sunday and fail before the day is done. If I could just get started and get in 1 good week, I would be on my way. I cancelled all my gym memberships as I never was going and it was wasted cash at the tone of 80.00 a month, ouch. In the deep back of my mind I hope with my new condo I will go. There is going to be a free full service gym there. We shall see. I can plan and all, but doing it.....another blog all to itself.

Home

I have finally decided to move out. I have tried to maintain, but realistically this is not worth it. it is too much house and too much MONEY. To even half way have this set up like I would like, would cost me so much money. I want something up to date, I want the comforts I should be able to afford. I want counter space to prep and cook on. I really wonder how women of long ago were able to cook in these tiny little kitchens.

New guy, same hair

Funny thing, some good friend coworkers of mine and I have known each other for a while and we have a mutual friend. This mutual friend is the best friend of one of my coworkers husband. That sounds like some baby-mama stuff. Anywho, nice guy, asked him to ask her for my number; Why didn't you just ask me??? After seeing him a few times, I now understand. Shy and reserved. Quite a gentleman I must say. I just might change my single for life plan.
My hair, same ole unchanged and hating it tree braids. I really need to decide to do something soon. Lace, braids something. Financially I am somewhat out of the woods, I have room to at least breathe now.